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How can I get my child to "wind down" when school starts?

开学了,如何让孩子“收心”?

“The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing.

 

“My son’s biological clock is turned upside down when he goes to bed in the early hours of the morning and gets up at noon. Whenever the school year starts, he does not want to go to school, all kinds of tantrums, really worried about me.”

 

Summer and winter can be said to be the children’s carnival season. Without the constraints of school, children are indulging in all kinds of things, hating themselves for not having the skills to split up. Play games, watch cartoons almost all of their holiday life, learning has long been thrown away by them to the clouds.

 

It’s the beginning of the school year, and children are thinking about the cartoons they haven’t finished watching, the bosses they haven’t defeated, the toys they haven’t played with, the snacks they haven’t eaten —— and the winter vacation homework they haven’t finished. The bear children in order to avoid punishment is also eight immortals to show their skills, a variety of farce constantly staged. For example, the elementary school students did not complete their winter vacation homework, but lied about being framed by thieves; 13-year-old girl lied about being knocked unconscious and kidnapped, but because the summer homework was not completed? The winter vacation homework is not completed, bear children beaten after taking his brother away from home —— such news is common, but also let the parents distressed.

 

For the child can not complete the winter vacation homework, many parents can not help but give the child a violent beating. But when it comes to beating your child, as parents, have you thought about your own problems? The family is equivalent to the child’s second classroom, without a good learning environment, how can children quietly learn? Therefore, I suggest that parents, during the winter and summer holidays to care more about their children, to supervise their children, to help children develop good habits and learning attitude, rather than scolding children towards the beginning of the school year.

 

One, set an example

 

Many parents ask their children to read books and do homework on the one hand, and play games and watch TV on the other. If you can’t do it yourself, what reason do you have to ask your child to do it? So, parents ask their children to do their homework, you can tutor next to them, or read books and newspapers. Only when you set an example, your words will have prestige and persuasive power.

 

Second, supervise your child to develop good habits

 

Children are less self-disciplined, so parental supervision is especially important. During the winter break, parents should always supervise their children and help them develop good habits, for example, waking up on time, doing homework on time, and cleaning up their own rooms —– Good habits help children enter the study state as soon as possible after the school year begins.

 

Third, let reading books become a habit

 

Sowing behavior, reaping habits. Sowing habits, reaping character. Sow character and reap destiny. Habits are cultivated through years and years of behavior. Parents can usually buy books for their children according to their interests, read them together with their children, discuss them together, and help their children develop the habit of reading books. When reading a book becomes a habit for the child, the child will take the initiative to read books.

 

Fourth, take your child to play in the children’s playground

 

The education of children should be a combination of work and rest, children tired of reading books, or the day’s homework task is completed, you can take the child out to relax, so that children do not have an aversion to learning. There are more children of the same age in the children’s playground, so children can learn from each other in the process of playing and make progress together. In addition, the children’s playground is designed for children fitness, sports, fun and equal to one of the children’s activity center, it can save children from the poison in the cell phone computer, but also to achieve the role of physical fitness, brain health.

“自从放寒假以来,我家孩子整天手机电脑不离手,寒假作业一个字也没动,这马上就要开学了,可怎么办呢?”

 

“我儿子一到放寒暑假,生物钟就会黑白颠倒,凌晨睡觉,大中午才起床。每到开学的时候,他就不愿意去学校,各种发脾气,真是愁死我了。”

 

寒暑假可以说是孩子们的狂欢季。没有了学校的束缚,孩子们于是乎各种放纵,只恨自己没有分身之术。玩游戏、看动画片几乎占据了他们全部的假期生活,学习早就被他们抛到九霄云外去了。

 

又到了一年开学季,孩子们一边惦记着没看完的动画片,没打败的BOSS,没玩够的玩具,没吃过瘾的零食······一边因为还没完成的寒假作业苦恼不已。熊孩子们为了躲避惩罚也是八仙过海各显神通,各种闹剧不断上演。例如,小学生寒假作业没完成,竟然谎称遭贼嫁祸于小偷;13岁小女孩谎称遭人迷晕、被绑架,竟是因为暑假作业没完成?寒假作业没完成,熊孩子挨揍后带弟弟离家出走······这样的新闻屡见不鲜,更是让家长们苦恼不已。

 

对于孩子完不成寒假作业,很多家长少不了给孩子一顿暴打。但是在打孩子的时候,作为家长的你们有没有想过自己的问题呢?家庭相当于孩子的第二课堂,没有一个良好的学习环境,孩子们又如何能静下心来学习呢?所以,小编建议各位家长,在寒暑假期间多关心孩子,督促孩子,帮助孩子养成良好的生活习惯和学习态度,而不是临开学的时候打骂孩子。

 

一、以身作则

 

很多家长一方面要求孩子看书,做作业,一方面自己各种玩游戏看电视。自己都做不到的事情,又有什么理由来要求孩子呢?所以,家长们要求孩子做作业的时候,可以在旁边进行辅导,或者看看书和报纸。只有做到以身作则,你的话才有威信和说服力。

 

二、督促孩子培养良好的生活习惯

 

儿童自律性比较差,所以家长的督促尤为重要。寒假期间,家长应该时常督促孩子,帮助儿童培养良好的生活习惯,例如,按时起床,按时做作业,自己收拾房间·····良好的生活习惯有助于孩子在开学之后尽快的进入学习状态。

 

三、让看书成为一种习惯

 

播种行为,收获习惯。播种习惯,收获性格。播种性格,收获命运。习惯都是在长年累月的行为中培养起来的。家长平时可以根据孩子的兴趣爱好给孩子购买书籍,和孩子一起看,一起探讨,帮助孩子养成爱看书的习惯。当看书成为了孩子的一种习惯,孩子才会主动的去看书。

 

四、带孩子到儿童乐园玩

 

儿童的教育要讲究劳逸结合,孩子看书看累了,或者当天的作业任务完成了,可以适当地带孩子出去放松放松,这样孩子才不至于对学习产生厌恶感。儿童乐园里同龄孩子比较多,孩子可以在游玩的过程中相互学习,共同进步。此外,儿童乐园是针对儿童进行设计的健身性、运动型、趣味性等于一体的儿童活动中心,它能将孩子从手机电脑中的毒害中解救出来,同时还能达到强身健体,健脑的作用。

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